The demise of the 'like-minded' dinners hosted by the U.S. in Brussels is a significant loss for European diplomacy. These monthly gatherings, once a cornerstone of American influence in the EU, have largely disappeared under the Trump administration. This shift is symbolic of a broader U.S. disengagement from Brussels, marked by trade tariffs, troop threats, and a shift in rhetoric from strategic partner to adversary. The intimate dinners, hosted at the U.S. ambassador's residence in Uccle, brought together a diverse group of diplomats and officials for off-the-record discussions on trade, security, and foreign policy. They were a crucial forum for building consensus and sharing intelligence, offering a rare opportunity for open dialogue without fear of leaks. The disappearance of these dinners has practical consequences, as diplomats now struggle to gather information and maintain relationships that were once a cornerstone of American influence in Brussels. The shift in U.S. strategy under Trump has led to a more transactional approach, with a focus on immediate gains rather than long-term relationship-building. This change is evident in the larger, glitzier receptions hosted by current U.S. Ambassador Andrew Puzder, which lack the intimacy and depth of conversation that the 'like-minded' dinners provided. The loss of these dinners is a reminder of the importance of informal diplomacy in maintaining global influence and trust. As the U.S. continues to exert pressure on the EU, the erosion of trust and the breakdown of these diplomatic channels could have far-reaching consequences for international relations.